Queen of Hearts

Being under the double influence of Neptune, the QUEEN OF HEARTS fully possesses the idealism of this planet. All people with this Birth Card are endowed with charm and magnetism that attract other people. Queens of Hearts are "mothers of love", and they share this love with everyone they meet in life. They either marry and devote themselves to the family, or give all their strength to a professional career. They have a very high potential for achieving success in many areas, and, regardless of their sex, they are especially lucky in "masculine" professions. This is connected with the KING OF SPADES as the Mars Card — a very strong card that brings many Queens of Hearts enormous success in life. Queens of Hearts of both sexes take their role as mothers or fathers very seriously. If they become parents, a close bond of soul arises between them and their children. They are very similar to KINGS OF HEARTS, who usually devote themselves more to their children than to their spouses. People born under the influence of the Queen of Hearts are usually very attractive, sociable and friendly. They can become outstanding performers or musicians; in any case they highly value art and beauty. Many Queens of Hearts are aware of this and benefit from their psychic abilities or musical talent. As long as they are guided by truth in their ideals, Queens of Hearts can live calmly, engaged in raising children and wards and generously sharing love with people, which is their right by Birth Card. The Queen of Hearts is the card of the loving mother. Her life calling consists in sharing her love with others. If the Queen of Hearts acts on a low level, she may indulge herself excessively, be lazy and frivolous. This is the card of sensual pleasures and experiences. Among Queens of Hearts there are many dependants, escapists and alcoholics. But if they turn to their high ideals and resolve to overcome laziness and complacency, they will be able to rise extremely high in their work and career.

Relationships of the Queen of Hearts with other people

Queens of Hearts are usually attractive to strong and financially secure people. Among all the cards of the deck they are the "favourites". The QUEEN OF HEARTS is the embodiment of Aphrodite, "the woman all men dream of". They are gifted by nature with all the feminine qualities needed for an ideal wife or lover. QUEENS OF HEARTS are charming and devoted to their family and the ideals of love. They radiate cheerfulness, purity and a certain naivety, and anyone will think twice before trying to condemn them for anything. But the ideals of Queens of Hearts may be too high, and sometimes people with this Birth Card may attract partners who will "bring them back down to earth". Still, one can hope that the fall will not be too painful. Queen of Hearts men are also charming and graceful. They are more sensitive than most men and often become stay-at-home husbands who look after the children while their wife works as the breadwinner of the family. QUEENS OF HEARTS of both sexes are attractive to strong and well-off partners, who often marry them. In some cases the charm of the QUEEN OF HEARTS gives way to indecision and a certain indifference to the feelings of other people. QUEENS OF HEARTS can successfully win victories in love relationships, but sometimes attract treacherous or indecisive partners.

Compatibility of the Queen of Hearts with other birth cards

QUEEN OF HEARTS women are very attractive to strong men, especially men of the Spade suit. Diamond men may be crazy about QUEEN OF HEARTS women, while Club men consider relationships with them too troublesome. Queens of Hearts of both sexes become good friends with Club women, but Queen of Hearts men find Club women somewhat unpredictable and hard to fathom.

The dreamy Queen of Hearts

The QUEEN OF HEARTS is the queen of sexual pleasure, romantic liaisons and care for children raised to a cult. But she may be excessively sensual, too idealistic and in some cases too sluggish and lazy. Once I was teaching a weekly advanced course and had a group of eight women. One of them turned out to be a QUEEN OF HEARTS. Of all the students on the course she was the only one who gave almost no time or effort to study. It was almost amusing to watch her idle. Everyone in the group noticed with what effort she made herself come to classes and how lazy she was. To some people it must have seemed that studying was hard for her, but I am almost sure that she rather enjoyed the situation. Queens of Hearts love comfort and luxury. QUEENS OF HEARTS of both sexes are often charming and beautiful, but often they get bogged down in the swamp of codependent relationships of the saviour–victim type, which do not let their wishes come true. It should be borne in mind that the Queen of Hearts is the only card in the deck experiencing the double influence of Neptune. Although Neptune can inspire us to great work on saving the world, it can also tangle our personal life to such a degree that happiness proves impossible. In the case of the QUEEN OF HEARTS this shows itself mainly in relationships with family members, lovers and spouses. With such an overabundance of the energy of Neptune enormous doubts arise regarding one's own needs and wants. The whole life of the QUEEN OF HEARTS may be so filled with helping other people that she turns into a martyr. The energy of Neptune has a good influence on QUEENS OF HEARTS in the area where they work and helps them achieve great results. But this same influence always hinders success in their personal relationships. Here is a classic QUEEN OF HEARTS situation: a QUEEN OF HEARTS woman is married to a prosperous, influential man. The husband has one love affair after another, but the Queen of Hearts lives in the hope that one fine day her husband will change, or somehow convinces herself that if she puts up with everything and yields to him, someday her husband will see the light and love her again. But she will never tell him about her problems or even hint at their existence. People born under the influence of the QUEEN OF HEARTS can considerably improve their life, achieving great happiness, if they use one simple piece of advice: share their feelings and their needs with their partner. This is very easy, and even much easier than some can imagine. The truth is that the partner of the QUEEN OF HEARTS surely also wants to care for her and live for her, but the QUEEN OF HEARTS must give him such an opportunity. She needs to take the risk and show her vulnerability to her partner. Only then can the QUEEN OF HEARTS have a proper intimate relationship with her loved one, and she will be able to truly share the joy of life with him.